"You don't have to tell me until you want to," he says, learning to notice when she stumbles and rushing to reassure her. "If you want to." He smiles in a way that he hopes is reassuring.
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"You don't have to tell me until you want to," he says, learning to notice when she stumbles and rushing to reassure her. "If you want to." He smiles in a way that he hopes is reassuring.